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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:35

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do some guys treat girls so badly?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How are Hinduism and Sikhism related, considering they both originated in Punjab, India?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The sun's poles have flipped. A spacecraft is watching what happens next. - Mashable

Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do people mourn when their leaders lose elections? Is it common for people to cry over events that are out of their control?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

— fri(end)s forever!

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why is dating so frustrating and difficult for a guy?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

That's it for today.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Why are Republicans such intolerant people?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

When was the first time you suck on a penis?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is your biggest mistake or regret?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Procrastinates a lot.

Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What is a good comeback for when someone calls you flat?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hangs out with loser friends.